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Re: Are you a "Forever Alone"? :'3

Post by Kiros Razer on Thu Sep 19, 2013 1:52 am

Luu Sky Sapphire wrote:Agreed, Kiros. It's always best to follow your heart and take a realistic approach to women. Some of our members here made the mistake of "love at first sight" and getting stuck with someone who makes their life miserable. It's always about you, Kiros. Life should be about you until that special and kind person comes along. Then that person's life becomes yours, willingly, out of respect and love.
I think sometimes people get lonely and accept that offer, I have.
Sometimes I fell out of love within a few weeks.
After you see the real them.
I know once there was a person I didn't fall out of love with.
So it's possible, learning what i like is important.
Right now I can't take care of another when I need to get better.
I have health and mental health to work, take medications.
I wasn't eating for awhile so thats important!
I'm starting to cook for me and clean things I was too ill to do.
I can't be with anyone if i can't take care of me.
I can't let 33 years turn to complete illness i have things to do!
Art to draw! things to write! friends to make!Arika Yumemiya 
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Re: Are you a "Forever Alone"? :'3

Post by Luu Sky Sapphire on Thu Sep 19, 2013 5:50 pm

Right on, Kiros! We'd love to see more of your artwork in the near future. ;3

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>:3 FUNNY. THAT IS FUNNY STUFF, NEKO. YOU'RE JUST A SILLY OL' GIRL, AREN'T YOU!?

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Post by shezaei-neko on Thu Sep 19, 2013 10:42 pm

Shouldn't you know that by now? cookie cookie

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Post by Break String SpinElf on Fri Mar 24, 2017 8:32 pm

Never say never but... very, very probably.
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Post by Luu Sky Sapphire on Sat Mar 25, 2017 12:07 am

shezaei-neko wrote:Shouldn't you know that by now? cookie cookie

Four years later and I know it more than ever! >:3

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Post by ShadowMikoto on Tue May 09, 2017 8:38 pm

I will forever be Alone because I have no idea how to share what I'm thinking outside of Text. I'm incompetent when it comes to forming romantic relationships. So much, that I just no longer care anymore in trying.

One of the security officers that work at the Mall where I work asked me about relationships... my response was, "Tried venturing down that path Several times. No longer interested in going down that Dark route anymore, because since the first [what I considered] real relationship I was in back in like the early 2000's to the present year of 2017, it's just been one BIG disappointment and heartbreak after the other every time I try.

On the flip side! I hear... "Oh, that girl is totally into you!"

"Are you blind! Didn't you notice the look she gave you!"

Etc...

But wtf am I going to do from there? Just Waltz up to her ... or, better. Moon-walk over to her llike Jango the Hypnotist from One Piece with my hands pocketed in my jeans and tilt the shades at her with a creepy smile that makes her go... Eeeep!!!who the hell is this creepy guy! XD

...Wait, second thought? Maybe this is why my 'Approach Method' has been failing me? Think <_<

No, but really... it's useless. I've long given up on romance. And friendships are Alien to me, too. Anime fills the void anyway! ^^




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Re: Are you a "Forever Alone"? :'3

Post by Luu Sky Sapphire on Sun May 21, 2017 10:39 pm

ShadowMikoto wrote:I will forever be Alone because I have no idea how to share what I'm thinking outside of Text. I'm incompetent when it comes to forming romantic relationships. So much, that I just no longer care anymore in trying.

One of the security officers that work at the Mall where I work asked me about relationships... my response was, "Tried venturing down that path Several times. No longer interested in going down that Dark route anymore, because since the first [what I considered] real relationship I was in back in like the early 2000's to the present year of 2017, it's just been one BIG disappointment and heartbreak after the other every time I try.

On the flip side! I hear... "Oh, that girl is totally into you!"

"Are you blind! Didn't you notice the look she gave you!"

Etc...

But wtf am I going to do from there? Just Waltz up to her ... or, better. Moon-walk over to her llike Jango the Hypnotist from One Piece with my hands pocketed in my jeans and tilt the shades at her with a creepy smile that makes her go... Eeeep!!!who the hell is this creepy guy! XD

...Wait, second thought? Maybe this is why my 'Approach Method' has been failing me? Think <_<

No, but really... it's useless. I've long given up on romance. And friendships are Alien to me, too. Anime fills the void anyway! ^^





Because I'm an optimist, I know you'll find the right person in time. I don't recommend walking up to just anyone like your peers suggest. Women are not a Gamestop where you can pick out which game you like best. You have to be part of a community with women in it; introduce yourself to one of them, share your interests with her and ask if you can talk to her beyond the fandom. You're in anime and games, so I'm 100% positive it can work for you. Granted, I usually don't recommend dating nerd girls, since they take long to develop the relationship (afraid of being an adult means holding off on commitment, marriage and whatever can set up a future for you both). However, you don't sound like a guy who has taken the plunge yet. Experiment before your cynicism gets the final word. :) You may get luckier than I did when I was a young teenager.

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Re: Are you a "Forever Alone"? :'3

Post by ShadowMikoto on Mon May 22, 2017 10:54 pm

Luu Sky Sapphire wrote:
ShadowMikoto wrote:I will forever be Alone because I have no idea how to share what I'm thinking outside of Text. I'm incompetent when it comes to forming romantic relationships. So much, that I just no longer care anymore in trying.

One of the security officers that work at the Mall where I work asked me about relationships... my response was, "Tried venturing down that path Several times. No longer interested in going down that Dark route anymore, because since the first [what I considered] real relationship I was in back in like the early 2000's to the present year of 2017, it's just been one BIG disappointment and heartbreak after the other every time I try.

On the flip side! I hear... "Oh, that girl is totally into you!"

"Are you blind! Didn't you notice the look she gave you!"

Etc...

But wtf am I going to do from there? Just Waltz up to her ... or, better. Moon-walk over to her llike Jango the Hypnotist from One Piece with my hands pocketed in my jeans and tilt the shades at her with a creepy smile that makes her go... Eeeep!!!who the hell is this creepy guy! XD

...Wait, second thought? Maybe this is why my 'Approach Method' has been failing me? Think <_<

No, but really... it's useless. I've long given up on romance. And friendships are Alien to me, too. Anime fills the void anyway! ^^





Because I'm an optimist, I know you'll find the right person in time. I don't recommend walking up to just anyone like your peers suggest. Women are not a Gamestop where you can pick out which game you like best. You have to be part of a community with women in it; introduce yourself to one of them, share your interests with her and ask if you can talk to her beyond the fandom. You're in anime and games, so I'm 100% positive it can work for you. Granted, I usually don't recommend dating nerd girls, since they take long to develop the relationship (afraid of being an adult means holding off on commitment, marriage and whatever can set up a future for you both). However, you don't sound like a guy who has taken the plunge yet. Experiment before your cynicism gets the final word. :) You may get luckier than I did when I was a young teenager.

Sorry I would have gotten to this much sooner, but was feeling indifferent the other night.

My cousin introduced me to a cafe that he socializes (mostly about politics and law stuff) that's near a water front in our town, so I've been going there, even though much of the subjects often make my head do spirals inside! @_@ But even so there are some really cute girls there, and I think one of them has me in her view. Every time I've been there she has made some attempt to look my way and smile. So I'm taking that as an Indicator that there might be a flare there that could develop the more I become a regular. I usually make my way over in the Evenings after work and just sit there for a few hours, normally in the company of my cousin, who although is into law and politics, is a pretty seasoned Otaku as well. I couldn't see it before, but there may be a chance to make something happen! :3
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Re: Are you a "Forever Alone"? :'3

Post by Luu Sky Sapphire on Wed Jun 07, 2017 10:25 pm

ShadowMikoto wrote:
My cousin introduced me to a cafe that he socializes (mostly about politics and law stuff) that's near a water front in our town, so I've been going there, even though much of the subjects often make my head do spirals inside! @_@ But even so there are some really cute girls there, and I think one of them has me in her view. Every time I've been there she has made some attempt to look my way and smile. So I'm taking that as an Indicator that there might be a flare there that could develop the more I become a regular. I usually make my way over in the Evenings after work and just sit there for a few hours, normally in the company of my cousin, who although is into law and politics, is a pretty seasoned Otaku as well. I couldn't see it before, but there may be a chance to make something happen! :3

:3 Never give up, Mikoto! It all begins with that discussion. Women love when you start up a conversation that interests them. You must be prepared to listen to them when they talk. If you both happen to have a long talk, end the conversation by asking if she would like to dinner with you. Or if you can take her to the movies. That type of invite shows you're interested in her. Arika Yumemiya Good luck!

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Re: Are you a "Forever Alone"? :'3

Post by ShadowMikoto on Sat Jun 10, 2017 8:14 pm

Luu Sky Sapphire wrote:
ShadowMikoto wrote:
My cousin introduced me to a cafe that he socializes (mostly about politics and law stuff) that's near a water front in our town, so I've been going there, even though much of the subjects often make my head do spirals inside! @_@ But even so there are some really cute girls there, and I think one of them has me in her view. Every time I've been there she has made some attempt to look my way and smile. So I'm taking that as an Indicator that there might be a flare there that could develop the more I become a regular. I usually make my way over in the Evenings after work and just sit there for a few hours, normally in the company of my cousin, who although is into law and politics, is a pretty seasoned Otaku as well. I couldn't see it before, but there may be a chance to make something happen! :3

:3 Never give up, Mikoto! It all begins with that discussion. Women love when you start up a conversation that interests them. You must be prepared to listen to them when they talk. If you both happen to have a long talk, end the conversation by asking if she would like to dinner with you. Or if you can take her to the movies. That type of invite shows you're interested in her.  Arika Yumemiya  Good luck!

*Falls over* ... Literally like 2 days after I wrote that, she doesn't even work there anymore. I'm back to being romantically hopeless. It's like I go to that café now just to look at girls (while pretending the reason is to sip coffee...). Sad... Sad
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Post by Luu Sky Sapphire on Wed Jun 28, 2017 10:40 pm

ShadowMikoto wrote:
*Falls over* ... Literally like 2 days after I wrote that, she doesn't even work there anymore. I'm back to being romantically hopeless. It's like I go to that café now just to look at girls (while pretending the reason is to sip coffee...). Sad...  Sad

Happy Aww, I'm sorry. No need to be a sad Yukino forever! Have you ever thought of someone from the forum?! Many of us have dated one another at some point. I'm marrying one of our longest members, haha. You never know!

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Post by ShadowMikoto on Sat Jul 01, 2017 4:39 pm

Ya, the thing is, I lose my flow, ya know? When it comes to breaking into a serious relationship of any kind. It's like a change of naturalism or something. It doesn't make sense! frustrated Honestly, I've missed so many opportunities because I've never been able to see what's there, right front of me. It's a curse... that continues to press me down. <_<

But the other day she was there. And she's still smiling at me. But I'm too uncomfortable to talk to her.

I don't know why, but I'm just going to show up there again right now... like immediately after submitting this, and just hope she's there. Absence of being there isn't going to help matters any. :3 I would consider anyone on this forum though who might be interested to start off in an online relationship. :D


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